I made up these pretend people and i was pretending they were real for a long period of time and now every one found out and now they are so mad and this one guy i really like and he kinda liked me got really mad and he wont give me a second chance and i really like him! i so regret all of this now i lost alot of friend ships and i dont no what i can do to repair them all!
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Epo-Grip for repairs. Or maybe Bondo.
Mary, did you make up Sen. Kerry, too? If not, COULD you? Maybe he will go away then, too. By the way, what color is the sky in YOUR world? Enjoy the dried mushrooms, regards -Bill.
Mary, tell them, that they need to understand, that like in the real world, other people have their circle of friends and acquaintances. Even though they are friends, to certain degrees, with one certain person, another one of your friends might not feel the same way.
You might find some good in them, but the other friend might have had a bad relationship with them, and has not seen what you see, they just don't understand
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This is where immaturity comes into to play. Tell them, whether friends are real or made up, if they are not mature, it can and will cause lots of problems with relationships. They need to learn to communicate better, through all the good times, and bad times. If they cannot learn to do this, then tell them they are not being good friends, and you will have to start avoiding them, and find other friends whether they are real or make believe.
Hopefully you will eventually find enough real friends who are mature enough, that you can all work through the daily ups and downs of life, giving comfort and support, along with a few tears, and laughs, but enjoying life.
If they still, are not talking to you, after you have had a long talk with them. I suggest you talk to someone who knows how to help and explain what you are going through in your life. You could be experiencing such thoughts, that you don't really know what is real, or what is imaginary. You really do not want to be there, so now that you have told us here, find others close to you, tell them, and have them help you out.
If anyone need an explantion as to why I answered this way, you can email me.
I'm impressed, and I'm sure you answered this way was for a very good reason.
Randall could not told you any better. Honesty is the best policy, but what many people do not understand is that Honesty can also be the most painfull to face. If the person you like is not willing to listen and understand, regardless of how much you like him, then more than likely that individual will not listen and understand when your dating or going together. You may have to just let them go kiddo, unfortunately you have to do that sometimes in life to look out for numero uno! (Number 1 being You!) And that can be painfull, but you will survive! Just have faith in yourself.
Randall nice reply post, good intuition.
Mac
and here I thought I was reading the Beginners forum?