I'm not sure if I screwed up on the order form, or if I got hosed by the tannery, but I have a life size dry tanned bear (for taxidermy) that was supposed to be soft tanned for a wall hanger. Of course I hyped up the softness of the soft tan, and now it's no where near as soft as it should be. I will talk to the tannery and get their advice/recommendations, but have any of you encountered this? Is there anything I can do to soften it, like oil more and tumble? Thanks!